I make no bones about it, in my marriage we share all the bills and my wife is up my ass about ordering supplements, she forbids it as she says its a waste of our money and i should use that money for her kids college fund (she has 4 kids we are raising). so I will make sure to get some cash back when i go grocery shopping then use that cash to fund a debit account in my own name. problem is i can't have her find out i am ordering supplements online so what do you guys do in this situation? send them to a friend?