Ok so with regards to the gym distance. I live in a super small town in southwest texas. There is a Snap Fitness about 25-30mins from me that I belong to but I also belong to LA fitness in San Antonio (about 1.5h away). I do this because I like the use of the sauna, pool and variety of equipment. I do the farther gym about 3 days/week on days that I would need to make the drive regardless due to appts and work. The other days I settle for the smaller closer gym with very little variety.
With regards to how much I’m training. I don’t think I’m over training. Pumps come and stay about 2-3 hours. I feel nice muscle fatigue but really don’t get too sore anymore, and by 48 hours off of those muscle groups they feel fully recovered. My typical training is Sun,Mon,Tue-PPL then Thur, Fri-PP. some weeks I only get 4 days in and the 4th day will be a weak point workout with focus on iso holds and slow eccentrics. On off days I typically do cardio and TRX suspension for getting good stretching of the muscles and connective tissues.
Time wise I spend about 1 hour on cardio with a 5min cool down. Weights is roughly 1.5hours with only 30mins of actual working time. I do 1min rests between sets and 2-3 between stations. Then if at the LA fitness 30mins of sauna and on leg days 30mins of hot tub.